Each paragraph contains a certain statement, you must determine how each of them coincides with your opinion, and accordingly rate them on a scale from 1 to 5. Each of the 36 statements needs to be given one grade (from 1 to 5). Put 5 if you completely agree with the statement / it suits you, and 1 if it completely does not match you / you completely disagree with it.

Grade

Total number of points 130-180

Some people naturally have an interest in other people. They are inherently very sociable and are, so to speak, "human researchers." They are keenly interested in all the people they encounter in life, sincerely strive to get to know them better and happily make contact. How many points you scored clearly indicates that you are clearly not one of those people.

You are the type of people who, perhaps not very kindly, are called loners. You prefer to lead a secluded life and distance yourself from others. You can enjoy being with other people - but this is a very limited circle of friends and family.

There is nothing wrong with this, if you are really happy, you get everything you need from life, and you can realize all your undertakings without any problems. But nevertheless, one should not forget that not a single person, living in society, can remain a separate “island in the ocean”. The success of our lives, both personal and professional, always depends to one degree or another on other people. The more we interact with people, both one-on-one and in a team, the more successful and happy all aspects of our life will be. And this does not mean at all that you are obliged to go to all parties and become the soul of the company there. The fact is that it is necessary to show concern for other people, respect their feelings, make an effort to get to know them, no matter what stratum of society they belong to, and try to earn their favor.

Keywords: indifferent, uncommunicative, withdrawn, insecure

Total points 91-129

Communication and attention to other people is probably not a priority in your life. Nevertheless, you make some effort to behave honestly towards all people and to communicate equally well with everyone. You agree that people are generally decent and there is no reason not to try to get close to them. Therefore, you behave in a friendly and polite manner towards everyone.

Because of your behavior and attitude, people usually love and respect you. You prefer to treat people the way you would like them to treat you. For example, you probably exchange pleasantries with your neighbors, consider them good people, and are always ready to help them if necessary. However, do not seek to truly make friends with them.

Keywords: tolerant, open-minded

Total points less than 90

You are probably a very sociable person. You like to observe other people, get to know them better, form your opinion about their characters. You strive to expand your circle of friends as much as possible. In all aspects of your life, you rely heavily on those around you. In fact, without communication, your life would become empty and meaningless - so much so that you could become depressed and feel completely unhappy. You really love to spend time in the company of other people, at any event you feel like a fish in water and easily enter into a conversation with people when necessary.

It's good that you understand how important it is to include other people in your life. You are actually an excellent team player and, in order to make your life successful and happy, you strive to attract many helpful people to your side. The points you score also allow us to conclude that you have a kind character and are able to empathize with other people, thanks to which so many sincerely love, respect and trust you. On the negative side, some may find you overly curious and even intrusive. However, this will be the exception rather than the rule.

Keywords: empathic, kindhearted, caring, empathetic

How do you know how sociable you are? Take a little psychological test.

This psychological test will help you get to know yourself better. Everything is very simple! Take a pen, a piece of paper and start answering questions.

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How to take the sociability test?

Answer the questions below. After that, you will be able to draw amazing conclusions about your character, namely, your sociability.

Write down the question number and answer option that most closely matches the manner of your behavior and write down their indices (for example 1 a (where 1 is the number of the question and a is the answer option for this question), 2 in, 3 b etc.).

The recorded responses will be required for processing and displaying the results.

The main condition is that all questions must be answered honestly and frankly. Now get down to the questions.

Test questions to assess sociability

1. If you are invited to visit by a person whom you do not sympathize with, will you accept this invitation?

• b) only in exceptional cases

2. Imagine that while visiting you are forced to sit next to a person whom you consider your enemy. How will you behave?

• a) you will not pay attention to him

• b) you will only answer his questions

• c) try to strike up a casual conversation with him

3. You were just about to ring the doorbell of your acquaintances' apartment. Suddenly you hear that a family dispute has arisen in the apartment. What will you do?

• a) still call

• b) wait for the dispute to end

4. What will you do if you are offered an unloved dish at a party?

• a) despite disgust, eat this dish

• b) tell the owners that you cannot eat it

• c) complain about a lack of appetite

5. Which sandwich will you choose from the table?

• a) the best

• b) the smallest

• c) closest to you

6. What will you do if the company suddenly breaks in conversation?

• a) wait until someone starts a conversation on a new topic

• b) find some topic yourself

7. Imagine that you are in an unpleasant situation at work or in some other environment. Will you tell your friends about this?

• a) necessarily

• b) only friends

• c) not a single person

8. Do you add anything from yourself to the stories you hear from others?

• b) I add with very minor "improvements"

9. Do you carry with you a photograph of your beloved and show it willingly to others?

10. What will you do if, being in society, you do not understand the joke you have told?

• a) laugh with the rest

• b) stay serious

• c) ask someone to explain the meaning of this joke

11. What will you do if, being in the company, you start to feel a sharp headache?

• a) you will endure

• b) ask for a headache pill

• c) go home

12. What will you do if, while visiting, you find out that they will be broadcasting a program on television that interests only you?

• a) ask the owner to turn on the TV

• b) start watching TV in the next room so as not to disturb other guests

• c) refuse the program you are interested in

13. You are visiting. When do you feel better?

• a) when entertaining guests

• b) when you are entertained by others

14. Do you have the habit of deciding in advance how long you can stay at a party?

15. The correspondent interviews you:

• a) are you satisfied if the interview with you is published in the newspaper

• b) would you like it to be in the past?

• c) all this is completely indifferent

16. Can you be impartial towards people you hate?

• a) certainly

• b) only as an exception

• c) did not think about such a question

17. Do you agree with the opinion of other people, even if it is fair, but unfavorable for you?

• a) not always

• b) only if it confirms your opinion

• c) in fact, why do this?

18. When do you stop arguing?

• a) the sooner the better

• b) when this dispute makes no sense

• c) after you have convinced your opponent

• a) with pleasure

• b) if asked

• c) in no case

20. Imagine that you are living in the days of 1st Monte Cristo, sitting in an underground prison and suddenly find out that your worst enemy is imprisoned in the next cell. When will you start tapping with him?

• a) as soon as possible

• b) when you can no longer endure loneliness

• c) never

21. Do you have a habit of celebrating the New Year on the main square of the city?

• c) on New Year's Eve I always sleep

The key to answering testing questions

Now take the written answers and, using the table, add the scores obtained in front of each question.

After you know your grade of the test in points, find out the result of your grade. To display the result, click "+" next to your result and read the report.

280 - 300 points

The suspicion arises that you did not always carefully read the questions posed or did not always answer them sincerely.

Try a second time: check yourself again.

200 - 280 points

You should be happy with yourself. At least this applies to your ability to communicate.

You willingly spend your free time among people and, conversely, in any society you are desirable. You have a lively mind, impressionable, good listener and storyteller.

All these and some other abilities lead to the fact that you often become the center of attention.

100 - 200 points

Your attitude towards public life is not easy to define.

On the one hand, you have qualities and inclinations that make you an enjoyable member of society.

On the other hand, other qualities of your character seem to slow down the former. In general, you can feel quite satisfactory in society.

But, in any case, you have a hard time adapting to any environment. Your mood also corresponds to this.

But among the people you sympathize with, you often spend very pleasant hours.

50 - 100 points

As a rule, you love being alone. In a narrow family or friendly circle, you feel much better than in a large company.

You seem to be an introvert. By the way, many famous personalities who have gone down in history often belonged to this category of people.

Less than 50 points

This result is too small.

You need to try to be sociable. For you cannot explain to everyone that you are a complete introvert, that this property is from nature.

Not understanding this, many people think: since they do not want to talk to me, it means they treat me badly. And “having washed your bones”, two or three such critics will agree at all that you are a bad person.

You can, of course, ignore this if it does not bother you.

But if it hurts, try to develop your ability to communicate.

but. Actions 1, 5, 9, 13, 17 indicate a commitment to a directive style.

b. Actions 3, 7, 11, 15, 19 indicate a commitment to collegial style.

in. Actions 4, 8, 12, 16, 20 are indicators of non-interference in the actions of other people.

d. Actions 2, 6, 10, 14, 18 provide a basis for judging adherence to business style.

Calculate the points. A maximum of 25 points can be scored in each group.

20 or more points indicates that a person is committed to styles a, b, c, or d.

12 - 14 points mean that sometimes he tends to exhibit this particular style of interaction.

Overall score (across the entire test) in 70 - 80 points testifies to the aspiration to interact with people.

Indicator in 30 - 40 points speaks of the passivity of a person in group activities.

Test "Are you a sociable person?"

This test will allow you to determine the level of your communication skills, to understand the peculiarities of your communication style.

1. If you were invited to visit by a person whom you do not sympathize with, would you accept this invitation?

b. Only in exceptional cases.

2. Imagine that at a party you are forced to sit next to a person whom you consider your enemy. How will you behave:

but. I will not pay attention to him.

b. I will only answer his questions.

in. I will try to strike up a casual conversation with him.

3. You are just about to go into one apartment, but suddenly you hear that a family dispute has arisen there. What will you do:

but. I'll call you all the same.

b. I'll wait for the argument to end.

4. What will you do if at a party you are offered a dish that you do not like:

but. Despite the disgust, I will eat it.

b. I will tell the owners that I cannot eat it.

in. Complain about lack of appetite.

5. Which sandwich do you usually choose:

but. The best.

b. The smallest.

in. Closest to me.

6. What will you do if the company suddenly breaks in conversation:

but. I'll wait until someone starts a conversation on a new topic.

b. I'll find a topic myself.

7. Imagine that you are in trouble at work or elsewhere. Will you tell your friends about this:

but. Necessarily.

b. Only for friends.

in. I won't tell them to one person.

8. Do you add anything from yourself to the stories you've heard from others:

b. With very minor improvements.

in. Almost not.

9. Do you carry a photo of your loved one with you and show it to your friends:

b. Sometimes.

in. Never.

10. What do you do if, being in the company, you do not understand the told anecdote:

but. I laugh with everyone.

b. I remain serious.

in. I ask someone to explain to me the essence of the anecdote.

11. What do you do if, being in the company, you start to feel a sharp headache:

but. Quietly endure.

b. I'm asking for a headache pill.

in. I am going home.

12. What do you do if, while visiting, you find out that a program that interests only you will now start on TV:

but. I ask the owner to turn on the TV.

b. I watch it in the next room so as not to disturb the rest of the guests.

in. I refuse to watch the program.

13. You are visiting. Which situation is more comfortable for you:

but. When I am entertaining guests.

b. When others amuse me.

14. Do you have the habit of deciding in advance how long you can stay at a party:

b. Sometimes.

15. A newspaper correspondent interviewed you. What's your reaction:

but. I'm glad if this interview gets published.

b. I would like it to be in the past.

in. I don't care at all.

16. Could you be impartial towards people you hate:

but. Undoubtedly.

b. Only as an exception.

in. I didn’t think about this question.

17. Do you agree with the opinion of other people, if it is fair, but unfavorable for you:

but. Not always.

b. If only it confirms my opinion.

in. And why, in fact, do this?

18. When you stop arguing:

but. The sooner, the better.

b. When this argument makes no sense.

in. After I convinced my opponent.

19. If you know the verses by heart, will you read them in society:

but. With pleasure.

b. If asked.

in. In no case.

20. Imagine that you live in the days of the Count of Monte Cristo, sit in an underground prison and suddenly find out that your worst enemy is imprisoned in the next cell. Will you start tapping with him?

but. As soon as possible.

b. When I can't take the loneliness anymore.

in. Never.

21. Do you have a habit of celebrating the New Year on the main square of the city:

in. On New Year's Eve, I usually sleep.

Points for an answer

Interpretation of results... As a result of the scoring, you can assign yourself to one of the following groups.

280 - 300 points... The suspicion arises that you did not always carefully consider the questions posed or did not always answer them sincerely. Check yourself again.

200 - 280 points... You can be happy with yourself - at least in terms of your social abilities. You willingly spend your free time among people and in any society you are a welcome guest and companion. You have a lively mind, impressionable, good listener and storyteller. These and some other abilities often make you the life of the company.

100 - 200 points... Your attitude towards public life is not easy to define. On the one hand, you have properties and inclinations that make you a pleasant person for society, on the other, other qualities of your character seem to obscure the first. In general, you can feel quite satisfactory in society, although you do not always easily adapt to those around you. However, in society, surrounded by people you sympathize with, you often spend very pleasant hours.

50 - 100 points... You need to admit that, as a rule, you love loneliness and in a narrow family or friendly circle you feel much better than in a large company. Well, many famous people who went down in history often belonged to this category of people.

0 - 50 points... You are too withdrawn and live avoiding the company of other people. We advise you to be more sociable: it is necessary, first of all, for yourself.

Let's check how sociable you are, whether you like to communicate with peers and make new acquaintances, or, perhaps, you like spending time on your own more.

Answer all the questions by choosing one of the proposed options, and learn something new about yourself.

1. A classmate with whom you have not the best relationship turned to you for help. Will you agree to help him?

Yes - 1 point. No - 0 points.

2. Do you like to relax in the summer camp?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

3. Do you like going to discos?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

4. Do you easily get to know each other during your vacation?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

5. Are you always happy to meet a friend unexpectedly?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

6. Have you ever started a conversation with a stranger in an elevator?

Yes - 1. No - oh.

7. Are you always glad to have guests?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

8. Do you have many friends?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

9. Do you want you to have a holiday every weekend?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

10. Do you take part in competitions at any evenings?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

11. What about the names of your neighbors? Do you know them?

Yes - 1. Hi - 0.

12. Do you agree that the main thing is not victory, but participation?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

13. Do you like to communicate with people more than to play with the computer?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

14. Do you like helping someone?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

15. Do you eat at a party what is offered, even if it is not very tasty?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

16. Do you congratulate everyone on the holidays?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

17. Is there a company in which everyone wants to communicate with you?

Yes 1. No - 0.

18. Do you like new acquaintances?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

19. Do you feel confident in any company?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

20. Do you like to play with small children?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

21. What is easier for you: A: write a letter, B: call?

22. Do you find new friends easily?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

23. Did you have aphids to pretend that you are not at home?

Yes - 0. No - 1.

24. Do your friends often visit or call you?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

25. Are you worried about “what others think”?

Yes - 1. No - 0.

Calculate your score and write down the result.

Test results

Is your result 16-25 points? Congratulations! You are a very sociable person. The circle of your fellowship is really huge. Any company will welcome you: everyone is glad to meet you. You have a unique gift for finding a common language with different people, even strangers: you will always find something to talk about. This ability will help you become a real leader.

If you scored from 8 to 15 points: You love and know how to communicate. However, you also like being alone, dreaming, walking alone with yourself. It is unlikely that you need to strive to become a leader, to lead a company. There is nothing wrong with that, because chatting with a close friend sometimes costs more than making a lot of new acquaintances.

Anyone can become a sociable and pleasant person, regardless of whether nature has endowed you with such a talent or not. The art of communication is, first of all, work on oneself. And first, evaluate yourself today and understand what is worth changing in character.

For each question, select the appropriate answer option: “Yes” (2 points), “Sometimes” (1 point), “No” (0 points).

1. Personal or business meeting ahead. Does her expectation unsettle you?
2. Do you postpone the visit to the doctor until it becomes unbearable?
3. Do you feel confused and displeased to be asked to give a presentation, message, information at a meeting, meeting, etc. event?
4. You are offered to go on a business trip to a city where you have never been. Will you do your best to avoid this business trip?
5. Do you love to share your experiences with anyone?
6. Are you annoyed if a stranger on the street asked you to show you the way, give the time, answer a question?
7. Do you believe that there is a problem of “fathers and children” and that people of different generations find it difficult to understand each other?
8. Are you ashamed to remind your friend that he forgot to return the $ 30 that he borrowed a few months ago?
9. Finding yourself alone with a stranger, you will not enter into a conversation with him and will be burdened by his presence if he speaks first?
10. You are horrified by any long wait, anywhere. Would you rather give up your intention than languish in anticipation?
11. Are you afraid to participate in dealing with conflict situations?
12. You have your own highly individual assessments of works of literature, art, culture, and you will not accept any other people's opinions on this matter.
13. Hearing somewhere pronouncedly erroneous point of view on an issue well known to you, you prefer to remain silent and not enter into an argument.
14. Do you feel annoyed when someone asks you to help you sort out a particular business issue or study topic?
15. Are you more willing to express your point of view (opinion, assessment) in writing than orally?

Now summarize your points and assess the degree of your sociability.

30-32 points

You are clearly uncommunicative, and this is your problem, because you yourself suffer the most. But those around you are not easy with you either. You are difficult to rely on in a group effort. Try to be more sociable, control yourself.

25-29 points

You are withdrawn, taciturn, prefer loneliness, and therefore you probably have few friends. A new job, the need for new contacts, if not plunging you into panic, then throw you off balance for a long time. You know this peculiarity of yours, and it makes you dissatisfied. But it is in your power to change your own character. Remember: does it not sometimes happen that with a strong passion for something, you suddenly acquire complete sociability? So you just have to shake yourself up.

19-24 points

You are quite sociable and feel quite confident in unfamiliar surroundings. The problems that arise do not scare you. And yet you get along with new people with a glance, you are reluctant to participate in disputes and disputes. There is sometimes too much unfounded sarcasm in your statements. But all these shortcomings are fixable, you just have to want to.

14-18 points

You have normal communication skills. You are inquisitive, willingly listen to an interesting interlocutor, are patient enough in communicating with others, defend your point of view without irascibility. Without unpleasant experiences, go to meet new people. At the same time, do not like noisy companies, extravagant antics and verbosity irritate you.

9-13 points

You are very sociable (sometimes, maybe even too). Curious, talkative, like to speak up on various issues (although sometimes it irritates others). Meet new people willingly. Love to be in the spotlight, do not refuse requests to anyone, even if you are not always able to fulfill them. You can flare up, but back away quickly. What you lack is perseverance, patience and courage when faced with serious problems. If you want to, however, you can easily force yourself not to back down.

4-8 points

You must be a shirt-guy. Sociability hits you with a key, you are always aware of all matters. Enjoy taking part in discussions (even though serious topics can give you migraines and even blues). Willingly express your opinion on any issue, even if you have a superficial understanding of it. You feel "at ease" everywhere. Take on any business, although you do not always manage to bring it to the end. For this reason, managers and colleagues treat you with some apprehension and doubt. It is worth considering this.